Nothing but Thirty

 Episodes: 43

Synopsis: This drama follows the perspectives of three 30-year-old women and tells the story of urban women who encounter multiple pressures at the age of 30. 

Review: 
This is such a realistic yet comforting watch. All three women in this drama experience life very uniquely, with different priorities, life and career goals, and personalities. However, their friendship is built on a common understanding - womanhood. I felt very comforted watching these characters fight and struggle for the things they desire and for the life they want to build for themselves. It reminds me that part of life's journey is constantly pushing oneself to be stronger and better - and yet, somehow, it may not be enough. 

To really express my thoughts on this drama, I will go through each of the three characters and their experiences - highlighting what their stories represented to me. 

Gu Jia: Gu Jia is a stay-at-home mom and uses her analytical thinking and strong relationship-building skills to help support her family and her husband's business. Despite being stay-at-home, her life is far from relaxing. She is either working to build connections to get her son into prestigious schools or she is at her husband's company to help manage any concerns that come up. Her labor is often invisible as her husband takes the credit as the CEO & all her hard work toward maintaining perfection in her family life and in their family business ultimately did not bear fruit. Her husband has an affair and she has to find herself again - cleaning up his mess, dealing with his mishandling of their firework company, and finding her own voice instead of lending it to another. Her strength, resilience, and self-awareness were so refreshing to see, and watching her pursue her own dream of operating a tea business provided me the motivation that women do need to have a world that belongs to them no matter how small. 

Wang Man Ni: Man Ni took a risk in her early twenties by leaving her small town to try to make it in the big city of Shanghai. She strives for perfection in both her career and her love life yet struggles to maintain both as the story progresses. She essentially goes through a mid-life crisis as she wonders what it was all for and as she fights to overcome her depression/burn-out from struggling for so long in the city. Man Ni is the representation of ambition - and she's the character that sacrifices the most for her place in the city & for her dreams. She works tirelessly in luxury sales, often unable to use the bathroom for hours and constantly working around the clock to earn commission from VIP clients. She wants romance with someone who is ambitious and well-established to help ease the day-to-day struggles of the lonely city life she experiences. 
      However, things don't go her way. Instead of a charming prince, she finds herself dating a man who doesn't believe in marriage, has multiple serious relationships ongoing at the same time, and who questions why she wants more when he's given her so many materialistic things/money. Instead of progressing in her career, she faces backstabbing, romance rivals coming to disrupt her day-to-day job, and her ultimate burnout with the job/city. One of my favorite lines from her was when she said goodbye to her workplace of many years - she said this was the place where she invested with her youth, passion, and time & that it was a difficult goodbye in itself. I saw myself in that scene - as someone who really invests in her career with little to no reward at times, the job is in a way a storage of memories of one's youth, time, and energy. And yet to the business, you are just a fleeting individual - easily replaced.
     Wang Man Ni's journey to rediscover herself and to find her ambition/drive again at the end was an inspiring story. I love that she could've taken the easy way out in a lot of scenarios - going back to her hometown and marrying someone there, marrying her college sweetheart, etc - but she didn't. And it was a really satisfying storyline to follow. 

Zhong Xiao Qin: Zhong Xiao Qin is not a perfectionist like Gu Jia and is not as ambitious as Man Ni. However, her goal of living a happy, simple life with a decent job and a caring husband is just as important. Xiao Qin starts off being content with the ordinary, typically going with the flow despite her career and love life not being super extraordinary. Her husband has been distant and the two lack communication in how to ensure the relationship is successful & what their goals in life are. Eventually, when Zhong Xiao Qin finds that their difference in perspective truly impacted what she valued, she decided to put herself first and separate from her husband. This is pivotal for a character who still wants a relatively calm and quiet life - she learns to be independent, learns what she wants in life, and experiences new things that add layers of understanding to her previous relationship. To see her grow and to bring that growth back into her previous relationship & to see him reflect and change/grow on his own and come back a better husband to Xiao Qin was lovely. This was a great, wholesome love storyline amidst the many romance failures throughout the drama. 

I really enjoyed this drama and felt so comforted and validated that the struggles of being a woman in the modern woman are exhibited in so many different facets in this drama. 

Hometown Cha-cha-cha

Episodes: 16

Synopsis: Yoon Hye-Jin, an accomplished dentist from Seoul, goes to the seaside village of Gongjin after her life/career goes awry. She decides to open up a dental clinic and gets to know the village jack-of-all-trades Hong Du-Sik aka Chief Hong. The journey follows Hye Jin's self-discovery journey through the relationships she builds with those living in the village, including the romantic relationship that develops with Hong Du-Sik

Review: 
This was such a feel-good drama, and I looked forward to each episode. The male lead was so emotionally healthy and charismatic, and I loved how it balanced the female lead out so well. Both characters were learning and growing with each other and it was so light-hearted. I found myself "la la la" -ing every day to the OST. It was also lovely to see Shin Min-A act in this role and it made me so emotional that I grew up watching her - from her gumiho days to now. 

However, when Hong Du-Sik starts sharing his deep-rooted traumas and his reason for why he moved back to the town, I got whiplash. It felt so out-of-the-blue for a character that has always been mature, and communicative in his relationship & who has taught the female lead so much about having a positive outlook and investing in others. It seemed almost forced into the storyline to provide conflict and tension - but it was done a bit too heavy-handed. 

I wish the "conflict" the couple experienced in this drama was developed differently because Hong Du Sik's trauma was brought up so late into the drama and so out of the blue, it just felt frustrating to watch. It instantly turned the character into a stranger the viewer hasn't been able to truly glimpse at in earlier episodes & it felt like a pretty significant barrier/red flag to pose in a relationship dynamic that is just starting out. 

Would I watch this again though? Yes.
Overall, it is a positive and healthy drama & is a very relaxing/feel-good watch. 

Squid Games

Episodes: 9 

Synopsis: A Netflix show that tells the story of a group of 456 people who are invited to risk their lives for 45.6 billion won (38.7 million USD) in a series of childhood games. 

Review: 
This was so entertaining because it took childhood games + survival shows + dystopian tropes and combined them. Squid Games had amazing marketing leading up to its release and had a cast of big-name actors such as Lee Jung Jae and Gong Yoo. I found this series to be sinister and hard to watch because of how graphic and brutal the scenes can be, but I was entranced just the same. 

When childhood games come with such high stakes & when the characters are not necessarily cookie-cutter individuals where you feel openly good about rooting for them, it forces you to confront why you want these players to make it. They were all fighting for money due to circumstances beyond their personal control - with influences of society, life, and misfortune leading them to many of the decisions made. However, these players signing up for games for rich people's entertainment, begs the question of how much of their downfall serves the system/serves the rich? 

While the societal discourse surrounding Squid Games is fascinating, I did think the portrayal of the wealthy watching them for sport was a bit shallow. The acting was hard to watch and it felt too in-your-face. Also, what was the point of the undercover cop & what he figured out? I know it's to set up Season 2 -- but I worry Season 2 may be repetitive of the chaos and dilute the story behind how the Squid Games were built to use the "lowlife/poor" individuals as game pieces and there is little to fight against a system that works against them in real-life and in the games.